A quick glance at the news spectrum gives a sorry picture of the state of women in this country. The fairer sex which constitutes more than a majority in the population are being handed out an unfair deal — so much for the concept of democracy.
From
the Guwahati molestation where a 50-strong drunk mob literally raped
a teen in full media glare to the remote village in UP where a woman
was force-fed alcohol and gang-raped by policemen in a police
station, safety and dignity of women is virtually non-existent.
When
it comes to glorification of women in culture and philosophy, no one
can beat us. From goddesses to warrior princesses, women have been
worshipped in one way or the other. Religious texts to literature,
pages extolling women's virtues are countless. However, nothing
guarantees the safety of women in the street.
Dowry
is a major cause of abuse, harassment
and violence against women. Though outlawed, the practice is
rampant across the country; and contrary to expectation, education,
social status or urbanity does not deter this social evil.
If a
man has even a grain of self-respect he wouldn't ask for dowry. A
demand for dowry is an open proclamation that “for all my machismo,
I am an incapable loser who can't provide for my better half and I am
desperately dependent on the charity handouts of my in-laws”.
A
majority of dowry-related cases go unreported due to fear of social
stigma, threat of violence or pressure from families, the few that
are reported are gory and appalling enough to question one's belief
in humanity.
Sexual
violence against women is a different ballgame altogether. Though
myriad laws are in existense to safeguard the safety of women, and to
provide justice to victims, few translate into real support.
The
people and institutions who are supposed to enforce these laws are
themselves supporters of sexually charged animals who prey on women
with impunity.
The
frequent statements from top police officials, ministers, clerics,
and, in the latest case, from a member of National Commission for
Women, put the victims' moral credentials under scrutiny. Those who
bark that it is the dress of the woman that 'provokes' sexual assault
must remember that miniskirts don't get women raped in most cases.
The
'moral police' who patrol the streets to ward off 'corrupting'
Western influences such as Valentine's Day is nowhere to be seen or
heard when the women are torn to bits by savages across the country.
Their silence, combined with the 'endorsement' from the powerful,
encourage the sexual predators.
Sexual
crimes do not deserve any mercy. For all the psychological and social
reasons that may be lined up, it is the lack of fear of punishment
that powers these beasts.
I
personally favour physical castration as the most potent punishment
for sexual crimes. The criminals, rendered incapable of similar
crimes, must be incarcerated for life with hard labour. Hurt them
where is hurts, and results will naturally show in statistics.
Barely
a month back, an international study had ranked India as one of the
worst places to be a woman — only next to Saudi Arabia. Something
is fundamentally flawed with our system if we are in the same bracket
with primitive societies where rape victims are executed on charges
of adultery.
We
don't need Obama, but change we definitely need.
(This article was published as the editorial column in Postnoon on July 25, 2012)
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